tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36979815.post5464873872921345083..comments2023-09-20T08:20:21.213-04:00Comments on NBR's Spot: How Would You Feel...........And other Thingstweetey30http://www.blogger.com/profile/04780963604845788306noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36979815.post-49560670759493305462009-07-26T02:52:41.066-04:002009-07-26T02:52:41.066-04:00Hi there! long time no see, You all look good, so ...Hi there! long time no see, You all look good, so you have give up mc do, i hope you find a new job for you, convenient with the girls and family life. This Jon was a big trouble for you, good you know now about it.by Daniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07567237693396049018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36979815.post-18629903543928889012009-07-24T09:17:20.126-04:002009-07-24T09:17:20.126-04:00I agree with Grizzly Mama about making sure your d...I agree with Grizzly Mama about making sure your daughters know to go to an adult if anything like that happens. There are probably books or online advice about the best and age-appropriate way to approach this. I wish there was a way they could have "levels" of sex offender. You know, the kids dating as a 1 up to whatever number for an adult abusing children. It would make things easier on everyone.<br /><br />On the job front, I'm glad you gave notice. You gave them your best and they took it. I hope your next job is during the day and pays you well.Squirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09235466916480849429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36979815.post-4135640208955227732009-07-23T13:08:46.204-04:002009-07-23T13:08:46.204-04:00For the safety of your girls, I would sever all ti...For the safety of your girls, I would sever all ties immediately with Jon. Unless perhaps he was 18 dating a 16 year old and it was that type of deal but I doubt it was.Gardeniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06233358355888022857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36979815.post-990429424875075492009-07-23T08:56:15.327-04:002009-07-23T08:56:15.327-04:00I've taken heat before for my ideas on sexual ...I've taken heat before for my ideas on sexual predator..<br />I got pregnant at 15 by my 19 year old boyfriend..<br />Ive had people say he was a predator , and thats bullshit<br />I was full aware of what i was doing ..I was just stupid, and he was stupid too..<br />we were both just kids..<br />if i had been childlike it would have been totally different..<br /><br />But in saying all this..he betrayed your trust by not telling you ..<br />I hope to god he wasnt messing with a childCynniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05796562985485272298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36979815.post-42155099024679443972009-07-22T17:10:03.463-04:002009-07-22T17:10:03.463-04:00I would hate to downplay the severity of a sexual ...I would hate to downplay the severity of a sexual offense... however, I have to lean towards Hammer on this one. The entire definition of "sexual offense" is very broad. At any rate, he should have been more upfront. <br /><br />If he comes back and starts acting shifty, just run his ass over in your drive way with the car. It's a quick way to end a problem.Ryanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02765027864261638959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36979815.post-17091352755107509292009-07-22T09:07:33.851-04:002009-07-22T09:07:33.851-04:00I'm horrified that he stayed with you and know...I'm horrified that he stayed with you and knowing that he had this conviction but not saying anything.<br /><br />I hope that you find a way to talk to the girls about it - let them know that they can come to you at anytime to tell you if he did anything to them. I would have a hard time with that. We have had talks with the girls about good touch bad touch, who to go to if someone violates them - - but I just feel as if I didn't do it very well. I'm not sure how to approach it properly, so we just lumbered in and made the attempt at talking to them. I'm worried because kids often feel that they can't go to someone about it - so I just keep telling them that they can tell me, or an Aunt, or their daddy, or a teacher of a class, or the doctor or nurse at the doctors office.<br /><br />Sorry I'm going on about this. I'm so upset about it.Grizzly Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04140654835381345450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36979815.post-13731660433623678372009-07-21T20:24:06.238-04:002009-07-21T20:24:06.238-04:00I think he seriously betrayed your trust when he d...I think he seriously betrayed your trust when he didn't tell you he was a sex offender. I would not have anything further to do with him.VVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08751403913379728345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36979815.post-8618119755208655202009-07-21T18:11:20.639-04:002009-07-21T18:11:20.639-04:00Now you know to be careful anyway - what does your...Now you know to be careful anyway - what does your husband think of it? Will he say anything to him? Because I know mine would rip his face off for exposing his wife and girls to a predator. Of course, if it was something minor as Hammer has suggested it might be then no biggie but if it's more - that's really not right.<br /><br />Good luck with the job search!Jeanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15320507412459242451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36979815.post-74626695226537987862009-07-21T17:50:42.123-04:002009-07-21T17:50:42.123-04:00Hammer no idea but its still freaky to know that h...Hammer no idea but its still freaky to know that he was living in my home as a friend and didnt say a word. I would have turned him in earlier to have him do his thing when he came back if I would have known.. <br /><br />I think its because of something he did to a friends younger sister or his step mom. Meaning friends step mom.. Not 100% sure there.tweetey30https://www.blogger.com/profile/04780963604845788306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36979815.post-34553224435930602172009-07-21T17:38:01.332-04:002009-07-21T17:38:01.332-04:00That is really messed up. did you find out what ki...That is really messed up. did you find out what kind of offender?<br /><br />There are the ones that get one for peeing in the park or the 18 year old senior dating a sophmore..or the other kind..nonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07550167783969561280noreply@blogger.com